Flog & Flow

Welcome to M&D’s kink site! Maybe you found us on Instagram. Or maybe you’ve seen us play, perform, or teach at an event somewhere around town.

You may have noticed that the way we flog is … different. If you’re familiar with the art of poi spinning, you’ll no doubt recognize the origins of our style. We offer a sensual and flowy style of flogging – one that relies on rhythm and artistry, not just brute force. (But don’t get us wrong, we’ll still beat up on you … if that’s what you want.)

Check out the video below for a tame-ish highlight reel of our work, or click here for the full NSFW version.

For the newcomers and kink-curious, this site will help you get started with your impact play journey, and also offer information on safety, consent, and general best practices in kink. Our free tutorials will show you all the basic techniques.

If you want personalized help beyond the tutorials, you can contact me for a private lesson or follow us on Instagram to find out when I’ll be teaching a workshop.

For the veteran kinksters, you’ll find tips and tutorials on advanced techniques, as well as information for deeper, more nuanced conversations about the kink community.

And as a ridiculously important sidenote, if you’re new to kink, please start by learning about consent and safety above all else. Our Resources page is a good place to start.

Cover photo by @jackiexphoto