Welcome! We are M and D (at least, on the internet), and we are kink performers, educators, and ambassadors. Our mission is to show the masses that BDSM isn’t just about pain or power. It can be silly and fun. It can be deeply connective. It can also be an artform.
Our approach to kink can be summed up in these statements:
- We believe in the play part of “impact play.” Even when we’re performing or teaching, smiles and laughter abound.
- We understand the importance of trust and safety between human beings at play. As such, you’ll find plenty of information on communication and consent on our site.
- We believe it’s okay to want to look good while doling out impact play. That’s why we consider ourselves impact artists, with connections to the flow arts, martial arts, and dance.
Check out the video below for a tame-ish highlight reel of our work, or click here for the full NSFW version.
For the newcomers and kink-curious, this site will help you get started with your impact play journey, and also offer information on consent and general best practices in kink. All of the tutorials on here are free.
If you want personalized help beyond the tutorials, you can contact me (D) for a private lesson or follow us on Instagram to find out when I’ll be teaching a workshop.
For the veteran kinksters, you’ll find tips and tutorials on advanced techniques, as well as information for deeper, more nuanced conversations about the kink community.
And as a ridiculously important sidenote, if you’re new to kink, please start by learning about consent and safety above all else. Our Resources page is a good place to start.
Cover photo by @jackiexphoto
